Miscommunication or Being Set Up?

just now during my lunch time, my mum called me and asked :

" HOW COME NEXT MONTH BOTH OF YOU GOING TO ROM AND WE DUN EVEN KNOW ABOUT IT? YOU ACTUALLY SENT AN SMS TELLING JIE ( MY NEIGHBOUR ) TO ATTEND YOUR WEDDING. HER MUM WENT TO TELL YOUR GRANDMA AND SHE SO SHOCKED TO HEAR ABOUT IT. SO WHAT'S NOW? I REALLY DON'T BELIEVE THIS. "

i'm speechless and fuming mad, thus i talked back to my mum in my overly loud tone, telling her my side of story.

" HOW COME WE OURSELVES GOING TO ROM AND YET WE HAVE NO SLIGHTEST IDEA OF IT? "

mum : " that's why i told grandma that it's so not true. i asked her to check with jie's mum again. "

so, someone used my name and set us up.

the point is why do i need to tell her first and not my own parents instead?

there are alot of plannings to be done before going to ROM.

ie : where to stay? where to have the wedding buffet/dinner? type of wedding shoot. buying of furniture. honeymoon location. invitation cards etc etc.

the list goes on and on.

darling and i in fact did planned to go ROM but the time is just not right now.

so when we do, we will inform everyone but it will be after getting our blessings from our loved ones first.

till then, all blessings in whatever form will be accepted.

=)))